Hi Dixie , I think there are a few limitations on the forum for new users such as no pics until you have posted 15 times , possibly this also effects private messages . It's aimed at deterring spammers you understand so when king mumbo jumbo tries to sell us a Scottish castle 15 times his account can be deleted without further justification . It's not a perfect solution and can be annoying for genuine users but 15 posts generally lets moderators know you are human and you do have an interest in cruisers .